Hey Gang,
This one is for all the internet savvy bloggers who stop by here, particularly Cari-blogrs.
Do you know the below website? I need to know if it is a popular website and if it is worth advertising on. If not, are there any recommendations of Jamaican/Caribbean websites worth pursuing?
http://www.jamaicanlifestyle.com
I'm counting on you!! Thanks!!
Friday, May 19, 2006
Thursday, May 18, 2006
Re-cap
I had a relaxing, peaceful, wonderful birthday. Didn't do much except get a massage but I enjoyed just being away from home, with the change of scenery and being away with my bf was great!
As usual, this is just a quick hail to let you know I'm still around. I've left a few comments here and there as well.
Take care blog dudes & dudettes.
As usual, this is just a quick hail to let you know I'm still around. I've left a few comments here and there as well.
Take care blog dudes & dudettes.
Friday, May 12, 2006
It's My ...............
I am thoroughly looking forward to my Birthday this Sunday. Unlike my friends who are the same age as me and are in despair at getting older, I look forward to my birthday every year. It's been a long time since I've done anything on my birthday so my honey and I will be going to Montego Bay for the weekend. I'm very much looking forward to it. I actually got a surprise at work today by getting a beautiful bouquet from my new manager who is based in Barbados! I didn't tell her it was my birthday but she found out somehow and has given my b-day a great start.
So, say prayers and make wishes that I'll have a wonderful weekend!!
And ... Happy Mother's Day to all the mothers who read my blog!
So, say prayers and make wishes that I'll have a wonderful weekend!!
And ... Happy Mother's Day to all the mothers who read my blog!
Sunday, May 07, 2006
When to Let Go
These last few months I've played the role of counsellor to both men and women in failing relationships. It is amazing to hear some of the stories told of relationships gone bad whether because of infidelity, a person changing after moving in together or getting married or a person's change in life direction.
In each of the scenarios I've encountered the aggrieved partner was in pain, complete turmoil, despair and in some cases extreme depression because they just "don't know what to do anymore". Now, I know that seeing someone in a situation and being in the situation yourself will put 2 different spins on it. One of my rules about giving advice especially when it comes to relationships is to tell the person that I'm merely making suggestions about what I think is best. The decision is entirely up to them as to what they want to do. I don't want to be held responsible for anything because these days you can't be too sure about anyone. The dumpee may hear that the dumper had talked to you about it and next think you know, you're dodging bullets on the street or trying to outrun cars chasing you (ok ... that's a bit extreme but I'm sure you get my point).
My question is, why is it so hard to let go of the things that are so toxic in our life that it literally makes us sick?
One of these persons in particular, a female, had more than enough reason to leave. Reasons for staying: have been together 18 years, have 2 children together, have investments together (just bought a house together, although all the reasons to leave were known to her prior to making the decision to buy a house together). She believes there is no relationship anymore, has proof of infidelity and abuse, yet continues to say she prays and asks God to show her what she must do .... HELLO??? Don't you think even one of these is reason enough to get the hell out?? I told her as much and eventually had to tell her that I was not going to talk about the situation anymore. I'm very blunt like that and anyone who knows me well will tell you that. I say it as it is, I don't beat around the bush and I can be harsh if I have to. This is one trait that my friends admire about me.
Another person, a male is completely unhappy in his marriage as the wife has "changed" and it appears she only got married to have children. She has done some awful things too and it has the potential to get very ugly but he just can't seem to leave. He's not dependent on her in any way, he says he doesn't love her anymore, they don't sleep in the same bed together anymore. I've suggested counselling for them both but that hasn't materialized yet.
Why is so hard to let go? Is the complacency of the situation warrant a person's unhappiness? I believe that nothing is more important than happiness, contentment and peace of mind. I hope that I will never be in a situation where I'm afraid to let go.
In each of the scenarios I've encountered the aggrieved partner was in pain, complete turmoil, despair and in some cases extreme depression because they just "don't know what to do anymore". Now, I know that seeing someone in a situation and being in the situation yourself will put 2 different spins on it. One of my rules about giving advice especially when it comes to relationships is to tell the person that I'm merely making suggestions about what I think is best. The decision is entirely up to them as to what they want to do. I don't want to be held responsible for anything because these days you can't be too sure about anyone. The dumpee may hear that the dumper had talked to you about it and next think you know, you're dodging bullets on the street or trying to outrun cars chasing you (ok ... that's a bit extreme but I'm sure you get my point).
My question is, why is it so hard to let go of the things that are so toxic in our life that it literally makes us sick?
One of these persons in particular, a female, had more than enough reason to leave. Reasons for staying: have been together 18 years, have 2 children together, have investments together (just bought a house together, although all the reasons to leave were known to her prior to making the decision to buy a house together). She believes there is no relationship anymore, has proof of infidelity and abuse, yet continues to say she prays and asks God to show her what she must do .... HELLO??? Don't you think even one of these is reason enough to get the hell out?? I told her as much and eventually had to tell her that I was not going to talk about the situation anymore. I'm very blunt like that and anyone who knows me well will tell you that. I say it as it is, I don't beat around the bush and I can be harsh if I have to. This is one trait that my friends admire about me.
Another person, a male is completely unhappy in his marriage as the wife has "changed" and it appears she only got married to have children. She has done some awful things too and it has the potential to get very ugly but he just can't seem to leave. He's not dependent on her in any way, he says he doesn't love her anymore, they don't sleep in the same bed together anymore. I've suggested counselling for them both but that hasn't materialized yet.
Why is so hard to let go? Is the complacency of the situation warrant a person's unhappiness? I believe that nothing is more important than happiness, contentment and peace of mind. I hope that I will never be in a situation where I'm afraid to let go.
Monday, May 01, 2006
Hey
Well, it's been quite a while since I've said anything here and thought I needed to make an appearance before I lose all my readers and the wonderful bonds I've formed with the blogosphere.
There have been so many occurences in life that I really should have said something about - for example, the killing of Ambassador Peter King and the controversy which surrounds his death, the plea for the police to "Leggo Di Tape" by various individuals including enterdainers... we knew this one would not elude them, the debate about Sis P's decision to include religious personsin her administration, the fact that toll rates for Spanish Town and Vineyards East went up today among many others that I can't even remember right now.
Not to mention all the exciting things that have been happening in my personal life which I'll share at the appropriate time ... not right now ... want to keep you guys hanging on.
So, once again, a quick shout out using steal-away time at work to say hi and how you're doing and hope all is well with you too. I've been reading your blogs every chance I get which is not many but I definitely haven't forgotten you and am still trying to stay in touch in even the smallest possible way.
Take care everyone.
There have been so many occurences in life that I really should have said something about - for example, the killing of Ambassador Peter King and the controversy which surrounds his death, the plea for the police to "Leggo Di Tape" by various individuals including enterdainers... we knew this one would not elude them, the debate about Sis P's decision to include religious personsin her administration, the fact that toll rates for Spanish Town and Vineyards East went up today among many others that I can't even remember right now.
Not to mention all the exciting things that have been happening in my personal life which I'll share at the appropriate time ... not right now ... want to keep you guys hanging on.
So, once again, a quick shout out using steal-away time at work to say hi and how you're doing and hope all is well with you too. I've been reading your blogs every chance I get which is not many but I definitely haven't forgotten you and am still trying to stay in touch in even the smallest possible way.
Take care everyone.
Friday, March 24, 2006
Blogs Forever
I haven't been posting as frequently but I try to check all my favourite blogs at least once a week these days to catch up. There has been a lot of talk from bloggers about not posting as often. The sentiment expressed by some is that the enthusiasm that was once there is no longer. Dr D. posted yesterday that the Caribloggrs crew is not posting as often as they used to. For me, I absolutely love blogging and blogs. Sometimes there comes a time when you have to take a break from some things to focus on others that may be a priority at the moment and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that.
Well, in the midst of all this infrequent blogging, one of my dearest friends, the one who actually introduced me to the whole concept of blogging has made a comeback and put a huge smile on my face when I checked her blog just now. Regular Girl, welcome back!! You made my night!!
The bible says there's a time and season for everything. And soon, we won't be able to stay from our blog for too long. Blogs rule forever!!
More time everyone.
I just found a post I started in my drafts ... I'm going to make an effort to finish it this weekend ... ok, that's pushing it ... next weekend!
Well, in the midst of all this infrequent blogging, one of my dearest friends, the one who actually introduced me to the whole concept of blogging has made a comeback and put a huge smile on my face when I checked her blog just now. Regular Girl, welcome back!! You made my night!!
The bible says there's a time and season for everything. And soon, we won't be able to stay from our blog for too long. Blogs rule forever!!
More time everyone.
I just found a post I started in my drafts ... I'm going to make an effort to finish it this weekend ... ok, that's pushing it ... next weekend!
Wednesday, March 08, 2006
Still Around
Hi Everyone,
Just letting you know that I'm still around but have not had much time to blog about anything real right now. I've been trying to read you all as much as possible so don't think I've deserted you .
Don't worry ... I'll Be BaCk!!
Just letting you know that I'm still around but have not had much time to blog about anything real right now. I've been trying to read you all as much as possible so don't think I've deserted you .
Don't worry ... I'll Be BaCk!!
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